marriage is NOT the bomb..

Have you ever been in a position where someone is getting overly aggressive in a relationship?
Hmm.. Wow. I have been in this situation loads of times. I don't know why, but I have been on the receiving end of some extremely stupid marriage proposals. Ever since I was 14 or something, guys have been asking for my hand in marriage and it's extremely stupid because some of them were old enough to be my dads! A lot of boyfriends And shouldn't it be the girls thinking of marriage, not guys? But maybe that's just me being overly stereotypical. But those are extreme. There are some guys who just won't let go no matter how hard you try to push them away. My ex from when I was in UPM used to badger me all the time when we broke up about how I made a mistake dumping him blah blah blah. Then just recently, a prof of mine there at DLSC stalked me non-stop! Wouldn't stop texting me and saying that we should be in a relationship! He still bugs me up to now. Pft.

Would you marry someone your parents adore, but you don't love?
No, I wouldn't. I mean, since when have a listened to what my mom thinks? She just says that so long as I'm happy and so-and-so treats me well. So she sort of trusts my judgment of people, not make the mistakes a lot of people make in getting married. I mean, it's a forever thing, so get it right! Mom just says that my taste in guys means somebody who either looks gay or is downright ugly. Evil! But she would never force me to do something that will make me miserable.
On a happier note, marriage has never been on my list of things to do. I've always said that I was never a family-oriented person. I love my family (mom, uncle, aunt) but a family of my own is out of the question. I have a very short fuse and commitment issues, so yeah. Plus I have ideals about the world I bring kids into. Mom keeps saying I'll change my mind, but whatever. It's way in the future.